Dear Madam,

You know the problem yourself....its clear you are lazy and don't want to have to actually get off your lazy backside to actually lose the weight and by writing to me you already know this!!! You don't need a genius to tell you fairy godmothers don't actually exist, so unless you actually do something about it! This problem will be with you for life! Your husband doesn't actually want to go to the gym with you, he'l just be happy that you go! 

Loose the weight, he will get off your back! And you'll both be happy! So join a class, or SOMETHING!!! Don't wait till tomorrow, (or say il do it on Monday) DO IT NOW!!! change your diet too! 

If you don't I'm sure your husband will soon be writing in saying help..  my wife is eating too much and she won't come to the gym because other women are there! She's always been the only one for me! She knows this! But you know what.. maybe I should go alone and meet someone else, just to make her want to fight for what she really wants!? ....

Do you really want it to come to that?

Don't play the victim, you know your overweight.... and you know you need to do something! Stop delaying what you need to do! And do it today! Get that body you want and be proud!