So this is about my life and for anyone who is in the same situation or s about to be. So I'm going to tell you my story of me and my soon to be ex husband well me and my husband met online and every thing was ok while we were dating we were dating for like for like 7 months and  well I desided I wanted to stay home one day and spend it home cooking fried pickles well we faught about me staying home and cooking fried pickles and spending time with my family and we ended up breaking up that same day so on I went to Kansas to spend time with some friends to get over the break up so I stayed there for a few weeks and this person I babysat for asked me if I could babysit for this friend of there's so I agreed to do it knowing he's a single father of three well I babysat for him a few days and it was ok but then he asked if I could rub his calfs and so I did but I rubbed the wrong part of his legs any way I can't remember wether it happened that same night or a few times after but we kinda did the naughty and a few days after my husband asked if he could have me back so I did and it was probably the wrong choice so we dated a few more months got engaged and married in August 2014 well he left me multiple times I didn't think any thing of it until I went to Kansas agian because we needed a break any way I found out he cheated I gave him multiple chances and  I ended up leaving and I forgot to mention he told me he cheated on me while we were dating and didn't tell me till after we were married any way I left and we aren't divorced after